Things You Can Do

Make photo collages of the person who died. Bring them out anytime or on special days and share wonderful stories together.
Plant a tree or create a memorial garden in your yard.
On special days such as birthdays, day of the death, holidays or other important days, light a special candle and keep it lit all day.
Sponsor an award or scholarship at the loved one's school, church or club.
Create a special decoration for the Christmas tree or other special events for your family and give it a place of honour.
Use the rituals of your faith community that acknowledge your grief journey.
Have a totally fun day on the birthday of the person who died. The whole family can take time off work and school and just spend the whole day and evening together doing all the fun things they can think of in memory of your loved one.
Volunteer your time, experience and knowledge with other families at your local hospice organization, community agency or hospital.